Learning to Forgive
If You forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you.1
Forgiving someone is one of the hardest things we can do. When someone has sinned against you and hurt your heart deeply, it may seem like you will never forgive them for what they have done. It feels like there is too much pain and hate to forgive them now. However, God calls us to be forgiving and to not hold grudges. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus tells us, “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.” This is a perfect example of treating others the way you want to be treated.
If we search deeper in ourselves, we will realize that we have sinned against God a lot; similar to how that person may have sinned against you. However, if we search deeper into who God is, we will see that He has forgiven us for all of our unforgivable sins. Since we are called to be like God and have a Christ-like attitude, should we not forgive others? Yes, we should forgive others just how God has forgiven us. Although it may take some time for your heart to heal and be able to forgive that person, it is very much possible to reach that point of true forgiveness when you have Jesus walking with you and guiding you. The best part of forgiving others is that the weight of unforgiveness will be lifted and we will be free to love and move on. We will also be forgiven by our Heavenly Father just as He says. With Him, you will have the strength to forgive, give grace, and put those hard feelings behind you.
Suggested prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for forgiving me and giving me the strength to forgive others. Whenever I feel like it is impossible to forgive someone, please remind me that you have already forgiven me and are helping me forgive that person. Please give me a heart of love, mercy, compassion, and forgiveness towards others. In Your precious name I pray, Amen.
1. Matthew 6:14-15 (NLT).
Today’s Encounter was written by: Gianna B.
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