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Self-Fulfilling Prophecies

"What I feared has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me."¹

If I fear that I will get sick, dwell on it, and believe it, chances are more than likely that I will get sick. If I fear that I am going to be rejected and believe it, I will act in such a way to set myself up to be rejected and, like Job, the thing I fear will happen to me.

If because of a fear of failure, criticism, of not being perfect, and so on, I never step outside my comfort zone and take risks to achieve what God envisioned for me to do, I will never discover what I could achieve with my life.

Personally speaking, if I feel strongly about a project and sense God is leading me to do this, I would rather try, put it to the test, and even fail rather than through fear of failure never step out to follow my God-given life purpose and dream. I appreciate the words of the unknown poet who wrote:

    I would rather stumble a thousand times
    Attempting to reach a goal,
    Than to sit in a crowd
    In my weather-proof shroud
    A shriveled and self-satisfied soul.
    I would rather be doing and daring
    All of my error filled days,
    Than watching, and waiting, and dying
    Smug in my perfect ways.
    I would rather wonder and blunder,
    Stumbling blindly ahead,
    Than for safety's sake
    Lest I make a mistake
    Be sure, be safe, be dead.

As I suggested to a friend recently, let your decisions about what to do be based on love for serving God and others, and never on your fears.

Suggested prayer: "Dear God, I admit my fears and I bring them all to you. Grant that all of my decisions will be based on direction from and love for serving you, and never on my fears. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus' name, amen."

1. Job 3:25 (NIV).

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