Ten Commandments for Getting Along With People
"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another."1
Relationships are truly the spice of life. When we get to the end of our life who wants to be the richest man in the cemetery? Not me, but I do want to be rich in loving relationships.
I have no idea who the author is, but I have read the following commandments for getting along with people. You may have read it before, but I feel like it is such a good reminder for the times we are living. The past year has brought out the best or the worst in people, but as Christians, this would be a good list to follow:
1. Speak to people. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.
2. Smile at people. It takes seventy-two muscles to frown and only fourteen to smile.
3. Call people by name. The sweetest music to anyone's ears is the sound of his or her name.
4. Be friendly and helpful. If you want to have friends, be friendly.
5. Be cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do is a genuine pleasure [make sure that it is].
6. Be genuinely interested in people. You can find something interesting about every person.
7. Be generous with praise… and cautious with criticism.
8. Be considerate of the feelings of others. It will be appreciated.
9. Be thoughtful of the opinion of others. There are three sides to a conversation/argument: yours, the other person's, and the right one!
10. Be alert to give service. What you do for others is important.2
Suggested prayer: "Dear God, please help me to be a friendly person and a channel for your love to every life I touch. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus' name, amen."
1. Jesus in John 13:34 (NIV).
2. Encounter magazine (Australia).
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Richard (Dick) Innes unless otherwise stated.